3 Laser Focused Ways To Attract The Right People To You

We all know the power of having the right people around us. As I always say, alone you can do a lot, but together with the right inner circle, absolutely anything is possible.  So the goal is absolutely to work towards having the best people around us.  I think most of us can relate to at one time or another having people in our lives that might not be the best people to have in our circle; the emotional drainers, fakers and takers. If you have those people in your life, you must come-up with a focused plan to ideally eliminate them from your life or at least create strict boundaries with them.

If you want to be your best, you must surround yourself with the BEST! -Cynthia Bazin Click To Tweet

Once that is completed, how can you attract the absolute best people to you? Well it’s a process, but if you take these 3 steps, you’re well on your way to having an awesome inner circle of people around you personally and professionally.  Liz Stincelli of Stincelli Advisors says it perfectly; “Leading your life isn’t about ideas; it’s about making things happen.

3 Laser Focused Ways To Attract The Right People To You

  1.  Be Clear About What You Want – In order to get what you want out of life, I believe you have to put it out there! Let people know what you are looking for. So for being clear about what you want, this can be for both your personal and professional life. So for example, say that you are looking to be in a personal relationship with someone. Don’t be afraid to put it out there what you want and what your non-negotiables are.  If having a person around you that is positive and non-judgmental is important to you, make sure you inner-circle-is-importantlet people know that up front. If loyalty is big with you, let people know that as well.  If you are in business and you know who you ideal client is, say it out loud. put it on your website. Don’t waste time fielding calls from people that don’t fit into who you really want to work with. I guess my message in summary is; keep it simple for yourself.  Put it out there what you want.
  1. Find Out Where Your Ideal People Are – If you want to have the right people around you, find out where they are.  Again, this relates to personally and professionally. For your personal life, get really clear on your values and what sort of things you enjoy doing, then make sure you are at those places to more likely attract the right people to you. For business, are you going to the right networking events? Perhaps do you need to start your own events or start a Meetup Group? Where are your ideal clients? If you are on social media, are you developing relationships with people on the right platforms?  Take the time to figure this out. When you take action and be where the people you want to be around, more likely those great personal and professional relationships are going to happen.
  1. Dress Up And Show Up Each Day – One awesome way to help attract the right people to you is to dress up and act in ways that automatically will get the right people interested in you. So for example, if you want to be treated with respect, are you putting out to the world that you treat yourself with respect?  The qualities that you want in others; are you displaying those in your day-to-day life? If you are in business, are your dressing and acting consistently in ways that people like, trust and respect what you do? Is what you are putting out there match what you are looking for in your business? It’s all about clarity. If you are acting in ways that spell out clearly who you are and what you are about, your ideal people will see that in you.
Don't wait. Don't hesitate. Go after what you deserve today. - Cynthia Bazin Click To Tweet

Are you looking to attract better people into your life personally and/or professionally? Do you currently do any of things above or do you need to? What would you add? I would love to hear from you!

Cynthia helps you step into your personal and professional greatness with laser-focused strategies and really smart tips. She is definitely not about ‘the fluff’. It is a no-excuse zone with her! She gives you kick-butt motivation and awesome strategies for you to take positive actions forward each day. Commit to being mentored by Cynthia today! www.smartchic.me

2017-05-07T14:52:39-07:00By |Inspirational Articles|13 Comments


  1. Liz Stincelli October 31, 2016 at 7:29 am - Reply

    I love this post, Cynthia. It is so easy to turn a blind-eye to how much those we surround ourselves with actually impact us; our attitude; our behavior; and ultimately, our success. Your SmartChic Inner Circle is a perfect example of a group of women who are as dedicated to supporting, encouraging, and cheering for the success of others as they are for themselves. This is exactly the kind of inner circle we need. When we surround ourselves with positive, uplifting, motivated individuals we find ourselves being positive, uplifting, and motivated. Of course, the opposite is also true. If we surround ourselves with people who are negative and discouraging we will find ourselves mirroring their attitude and behavior.

    Thank you for this much needed reminder to deliberately choose who we include in our inner circle. I am honored to be quoted in such a valuable article.

    • SmartChic October 31, 2016 at 10:31 am - Reply

      Thank you so much Liz for your comments. I am so blessed to call you a great friend and in my inner circle. We definitely need to be deliberate in who we ‘choose’ to let come in to our inner circle and who we let stay in. Thank you for all you do. You are awesome my friend.

  2. Charles October 31, 2016 at 7:37 am - Reply

    Great article as always Cynthia. I am at the point in life whereby I fully understand what many motivational leaders have said for years, “Be clear about what you want.” I recall years of reading Napoleon Hill, Andrew Carnegie, Brian Tracy, Zig Ziglar, and several others. They all speak of knowing what you want in some capacity. Most people clearly know what they don’t want but it takes them time to realize what they truly want. I have been following your articles and writings for years now and I have been blessed with the opportunity to learn more, move forward productively and call you my friend. Thank you Cynthia and keep doing what you do for others.

    • SmartChic October 31, 2016 at 10:29 am - Reply

      I appreciate you so much Charles… Life is a continuous journey of learning and growing. You are amazing my friend and of course anything I can do for you, I am right here. Have an awesome day and thank you so much for taking the time to comment.

  3. Terri Klass October 31, 2016 at 7:37 am - Reply

    Wonderful article Cynthia! We do need to surround ourselves with the best people who bring out our strengths and gifts. I think the difficulty comes in when we have a boss or colleague who is toxic. In that case we cannot let them derail us and instead seek out mentors who can help us grow and see our value.

    Thanks Cynthia!

    • SmartChic October 31, 2016 at 10:27 am - Reply

      Excellent point Terri! So difficult when you have a boss or colleague that is toxic because you can’t just eliminate them from your life. That is definitely when we need a great mentor or coach to help get our mindset right; not allow that negativity to dull our enthusiasm. Along with mindset, I incorporate in specific strategies for my clients that keeps their self-care on the top of the list. Thank you Terri for your comments. You are awesome!

  4. Nancy October 31, 2016 at 7:46 am - Reply

    You have given me something to think about. I was at first not think about doing a display for the AARP event. Then I thought Duh that would be the right place to show off my products.

    • SmartChic October 31, 2016 at 10:25 am - Reply

      Nancy, I am so glad you had that ‘Duh’ moment and are going to get yourself out there! Excellent! I appreciate you my friend!

  5. Carol Parker October 31, 2016 at 3:01 pm - Reply

    Such a wonderful article Cynthia and a joy to read.
    I can relate to this article as I can see the importance of having the right people around you.
    Some people confess to being a friend but if they are making you feel drained and you end up losing your self worth..then its time to have a rethink.
    I have become very selective concerning who is part of my inner circle as there are people out there who will take advantage of your good nature.
    Sadly I have had my trust in people put to the test many times. I believe that this is a issue that will always cause inner conflict.
    It is amazing to have people around you who will build you up and strengthen you and draw out your strengths so that you can grow and become the best that you can become.
    Thank you Cynthia for sharing this. I totally love this article.
    You are the best.
    Have a great week.

    • SmartChic October 31, 2016 at 3:16 pm - Reply

      Thank you so much Carol for your really great comments. I appreciate you taking the time to do this. Yes we must always take a look at our relationships to ensure they are having a positive effect on us. I am so glad that you enjoyed this article and I look forward to getting to know you much more.

  6. Ken Loring October 31, 2016 at 7:16 pm - Reply

    Finally got time to read some of your blogs. Exactly what I already knew, I wouldn’t be disappointed in your blogging. What I didn’t know, how much I would learn, and how much I am enjoying reading them. Keep up the masterpiece work in helping us all grow ! You are always a blessing Cynthia.

    With Gratitude,
    Ken Loring

    • SmartChic November 2, 2016 at 9:11 pm - Reply

      Thank you SO much Ken for your comments! What an awesome surprise to see you on here. I am so glad you are enjoying them. Keep coming back!

  7. Jill Cofsky December 28, 2016 at 3:00 pm - Reply

    Another great article filled with helpful suggestions! I am attempting to focus on tip #2 this year and how important it is to surround myself with positive people who I can develop lasting, meaningful personal and professional relationships with. Having supportive people in your life is essential to your success and happiness. With the support and love of others, you can achieve so much more than you can on your own.

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