You are not your past. You are what you focus on in the present and how you move ahead. ~Cynthia Bazin
I think we all know this, but do we truly LIVE that? Are we doing what makes us happy in life or are there things in life, negative things, that are blocking us from truly living a life full of happiness? None of us are perfect and I think we all could share a story where there was some negativity in our past which could truly hold us back if we choose to do nothing about it. What I just said is the key… we choose to take control of our life or let life circumstances take control of us.
I am writing this post because of someone I know that is super smart, beautiful on the inside and outside and deserves GREAT success and happiness. I am proud to say, she admitted to me yesterday that she was sick and tired of being sick and tired. She was ready and committed to take the steps to move forward from some negatively in her past that she let affect her by not truly going for what would make her happy in life. She said out loud ‘No more‘. She committed to really start going for it in life.
Listen. Life is flying on by. For me personally, I refuse to let anyone bring negativity into my life which could affect my persistence and determination to live what I consider to be a happy and authentically successful life. I choose to live a life with absolutely no regrets. I say ‘no’ to toxic, negative people and I say ‘yes’ to living life to the fullest. END OF STORY.
So I ask you. Have you had enough of something from your past trying to keep you from moving WAY forward in your life? Are you ready to take concrete steps to live your happiest life? Here are 5 smart tips to get you started.
5 Smart Tips to Move Past Negativity / Break Through to True Happiness
- Get Real! The first step is to get real with yourself and find out what is blocking you. No more reasoning and justifying things. The first step in moving forward is getting to the core of what has been holding you back.
- Be Sick and Tired of Being Sick and Tired – I truly believe in order for people to really make the commitment to make REAL change in their lives for the better, they have to be sick and tired of the status quo. Enough is enough and by being really tired of how things are, they then will really commit to moving positively forward.
- Be Committed to Radically Change Your Life – In order for big happiness and success to happen in your life, you must be willing to commit! Commit to changing negative patterns in your life to more positive, healthy ones. You can do it. Believe in yourself. You are worth it.
- Take Control of What You Will Not Accept – In this brand NEW empowered life you are embracing, you now would be fully in control of what you will and will not accept in your life. Only accept positivity and awesome support in your life.
- Surround Yourself with The Best People – Every day, make the commitment to surround yourself with the absolute BEST people. You must make the commitment on your own to live a better life, but in order to sustain it, you definitely need to surround yourself with the best people.
Does any of this resonate with you? Is there something that has been holding you back that you are sick and tired of and you are ready to change things for the better? Do you have a story to share with me? I would absolutely love to hear from you. I believe in the person that told me that she is ready and committed to make changes for the better…. and I believe in you.
You deserve the best and absolutely nothing else. Remember this.